Amy Chua is the John M. Duff Professor of Law at Yale Law School. Her first book, World on Fire: How Exporting Free Market Democracy Breeds Ethnic Hatred and Global Instability, a New York Times bestseller, was selected by both The Economist and the U.K.'s Guardian as one of the Best Books of 2003. Her second book, Day of Empire: How Hyperpowers Rise to Global Dominance-and Why They Fall, was a critically acclaimed Foreign Affairs bestseller.
An awe-inspiring, often hilarious, and unerringly honest story of one mother's exercise in extreme parenting, revealing the rewards-and the costs-of raising her children the Chinese way.
All decent parents want to do what's best for their children. What Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother reveals is that the Chinese just have a totally different idea of how to do that. Western parents try to respect their children's individuality, encouraging them to pursue their true passions and providing a nurturing environment. The Chinese believe that the best way to protect your children is by preparing them for the future and arming them with skills, strong work habits, and inner confidence. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother chronicles Chua's iron-willed decision to raise her daughters, Sophia and Lulu, her way-the Chinese way-and the remarkable results her choice inspires.
Here are some things Amy Chua would never allow her daughters to do:
have a playdate
be in a school play
complain about not being in a school play
not be the #1 student in every subject except gym and drama
play any instrument other than the piano or violin
not play the piano or violin
The truth is Lulu and Sophia would never have had time for a playdate. They were too busy practicing their instruments (two to three hours a day and double sessions on the weekend) and perfecting their Mandarin.
Of course no one is perfect, including Chua herself. Witness this scene:
"According to Sophia, here are three things I actually said to her at the piano as I supervised her practicing:
1. Oh my God, you're just getting worse and worse.
2. I'm going to count to three, then I want musicality.
3. If the next time's not PERFECT, I'm going to take all your stuffed animals and burn them!"
But Chua demands as much of herself as she does of her daughters. And in her sacrifices-the exacting attention spent studying her daughters' performances, the office hours lost shuttling the girls to lessons-the depth of her love for her children becomes clear. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother is an eye-opening exploration of the differences in Eastern and Western parenting- and the lessons parents and children everywhere teach one another.
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發表於2024-12-26
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一直以來,國內都在推崇西方的母親在生活中如何尊重孩子的自尊心,如何把誇奬孩子的話語掛在嘴邊,因而如何成就瞭具有怎樣怎樣獨立品格的下一代。這種觀察頗有霧裏看花的問題,忘記瞭如果在學業和能力的培養中同樣需要“挫摺教育”,西方母親的做法一定程度上也是一種溺愛。 ...
評分“Tiger mother”一詞最近在美國的教育界以及媒體成為一個流行詞匯. 齣處於耶魯大學法學院教授 Amy L. Chua 的新書 “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother”. 翻譯成中文大概可以叫做”老虎母親的戰歌”. 順便提一句, Professor Chua 的中文名字叫做蔡美兒 – 也是頗有迴味的名字....
評分我一直在想我應該站在一個同理作者的立場還是應該站在子女的角度來去評論這本書?其實這並非兩個不相乾涉的角度,當我能同理蔡美兒的同時,腦中另一個聲音就嚷嚷得越大聲:「你所有的做法都是以你的角度齣發的,你說你做的這些都是為瞭女兒,但重點並不在你犧牲瞭多少又奉獻瞭...
圖書標籤: 教育 美國 兒童教育 中國 英文原版 父母 為人父母 Chua
拋開之前讀的評論,節選,完整讀一遍肯定會對她多一些理解。
評分有得必有失,關鍵不是看你如何選擇而是你是否有選擇的權利。
評分不敢認同虎媽的教育方式,但這本書寫得挺精彩的。
評分覺得書本前半部分有關教育方式教育理念已經被各媒體誇大瞭,其實後半部分LuLu開始反叛最後崩潰纔稍微能觸動人心一點
評分觀念真好,贊
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