Julie Lythcott-Haims served as Dean of Freshmen and Undergraduate Advising for more than a decade at Stanford University, where she received the Dinkelspiel Award for her contributions to the undergraduate experience. A mother of two teenagers, she has spoken and written widely on the phenomenon of helicopter parenting, and her work has appeared on TEDx talks and in Forbes and the Chicago Tribune. She is pursuing an MFA in Creative Writing at California College of the Arts in San Francisco.
A provocative manifesto that exposes the harms of helicopter parenting and sets forth an alternate philosophy for raising preteens and teens to self-sufficient young adulthood
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large. While empathizing with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to overhelping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.
Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twentysomethings-and of special value to parents of teens-this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.
發表於2025-01-08
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1983年,美國《新聞周刊》發文《一大群“小皇帝”》,對中國實施計劃生育後傢庭教育情況進行瞭報道,特彆指齣“拜倒在孩子腳下的父母稱孩子們是小皇帝,中國的報刊稱他們是嬌生慣養的孩子”。“小皇帝”一詞由此風靡。1986年,報告文學《中國的“小皇帝”》對國內的獨生子女教...
評分內容很水,基本都在bla on,讀完聳肩,並沒有獲得太多靈感和啓發。Still, just to prove I have get the most I can from it: 最近的一個感受:always remind yourself never to underestimate the speed of growth of your child.
評分 評分#如何讓孩子成年又成人#讀後感 在談到中國式養育問題的時候,美國父母常常被當作榜樣,在一般人的印象中,美國式教育強調孩子的獨立,美國父母對待孩子沒有我們嬌慣等等。看瞭這本書我纔知道,同一個世界,同樣的“????孩子”,全天下父母都差不多。並且,這本書還提齣瞭切實可...
評分內容很水,基本都在bla on,讀完聳肩,並沒有獲得太多靈感和啓發。Still, just to prove I have get the most I can from it: 最近的一個感受:always remind yourself never to underestimate the speed of growth of your child.
圖書標籤: 育兒 教育 英文原版 美國 兒童教育 想讀 e-book 一定要讀!
更像Research而不是Solution。前半部分都是羅列作者遇見的眾多案例,這和她個人經曆有關,但作為一本名為How to raise an adult的書來講,讓人不耐煩。畢竟不是論文匯報。後半部分提及瞭一些原則方法,也並沒有什麼太多過人之處。結束時比開頭似乎快一倍。看前麵完全失去動力讀下去,忍著快進讀完,潦潦草草。迴頭再藉鑒點兒有用的詳談。
評分更像Research而不是Solution。前半部分都是羅列作者遇見的眾多案例,這和她個人經曆有關,但作為一本名為How to raise an adult的書來講,讓人不耐煩。畢竟不是論文匯報。後半部分提及瞭一些原則方法,也並沒有什麼太多過人之處。結束時比開頭似乎快一倍。看前麵完全失去動力讀下去,忍著快進讀完,潦潦草草。迴頭再藉鑒點兒有用的詳談。
評分mainly focused on u.s., some of the content are not suitable for chinese. someday, will be
評分12%棄,我當然知道當代父母育兒方式前所未有,So what? 九斤老太會寫書大抵如是。
評分總結成一個詞就是放手。說起來容易做起來難。
How to Raise an Adult 2025 pdf epub mobi 電子書 下載