Julie Lythcott-Haims served as Dean of Freshmen and Undergraduate Advising for more than a decade at Stanford University, where she received the Dinkelspiel Award for her contributions to the undergraduate experience. A mother of two teenagers, she has spoken and written widely on the phenomenon of helicopter parenting, and her work has appeared on TEDx talks and in Forbes and the Chicago Tribune. She is pursuing an MFA in Creative Writing at California College of the Arts in San Francisco.
发表于2025-02-06
How to Raise an Adult 2025 pdf epub mobi 电子书
前斯坦福招生主任写的“如何养育成人”(意为:如何教养孩子让他们真正长大成人)一书。前半本絮絮叨叨、啰啰嗦嗦,基本在说一个事:不能over-parenting呀不能over-parenting。她号召家长、孩子们不要只紧盯那么有限的几个名校、而是全面的考量孩子的特点、着眼长期可持续发展...
评分 评分 评分图书标签: 育儿 教育 英文原版 美国 儿童教育 想读 e-book 一定要读!
A provocative manifesto that exposes the harms of helicopter parenting and sets forth an alternate philosophy for raising preteens and teens to self-sufficient young adulthood
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large. While empathizing with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to overhelping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.
Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twentysomethings-and of special value to parents of teens-this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.
作者读了好多育儿书啊
评分总结成一个词就是放手。说起来容易做起来难。
评分nothing unexpected. kids should do chores.
评分总结成一个词就是放手。说起来容易做起来难。
评分我们为孩子所做的一切都是在为了他们离开我们的那天做准备。我们应该帮助他们适应社会,而不是将他们与社会隔离。不过说得轻松,在孩子的安全风险面前,哪个家长又真的能做到放手? 孩子最重要的品质是grit坚毅和面对挫折的自我修复力。至于他的考试成绩如何,能进什么学校,这些都是次要的。
How to Raise an Adult 2025 pdf epub mobi 电子书