Julie Lythcott-Haims served as Dean of Freshmen and Undergraduate Advising for more than a decade at Stanford University, where she received the Dinkelspiel Award for her contributions to the undergraduate experience. A mother of two teenagers, she has spoken and written widely on the phenomenon of helicopter parenting, and her work has appeared on TEDx talks and in Forbes and the Chicago Tribune. She is pursuing an MFA in Creative Writing at California College of the Arts in San Francisco.
发表于2024-11-25
How to Raise an Adult 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书
强烈推荐这本书,尤其是给有孩子的父母来读。也热切的希望老师们能来读一读。 很有意思,这本书在微信读书上首先跳出的评价都很激烈,说这是一本烂书。我猜,可能是冲击到了吧。 在行业中也有十年了,看到太多太多现在的孩子。记得一个印象非常深刻的画面:我在听课,老师在按...
评分 评分文 / 董小琳 一群妈妈们凑到一起,离不开孩子的吃喝拉撒……这些事情。 “每天都端着水求着他喝。吃饭也不让人省心,喂一口跑了,还得追着喂……” “我也不想呀。但是不追着喂,孩子万一食水不周,生病了,怎么办?” 都知道这样不好,但又似乎没有办法改变。 “我婆婆说,她...
评分前斯坦福招生主任写的“如何养育成人”(意为:如何教养孩子让他们真正长大成人)一书。前半本絮絮叨叨、啰啰嗦嗦,基本在说一个事:不能over-parenting呀不能over-parenting。她号召家长、孩子们不要只紧盯那么有限的几个名校、而是全面的考量孩子的特点、着眼长期可持续发展...
评分俗话说:“先成人再成才。”所以从古至今,世界各国都很强调“成人”一说,因为做人是永恒的,所以教育里关于做人的部分也是永恒的,并且很多情况下会显得更重要。 但是,现实往往事与愿违,不管是中国,还是美国,都存在着大量“过度教育”,也就是“溺爱”的现象,很多小孩虽...
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A provocative manifesto that exposes the harms of helicopter parenting and sets forth an alternate philosophy for raising preteens and teens to self-sufficient young adulthood
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large. While empathizing with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to overhelping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.
Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twentysomethings-and of special value to parents of teens-this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.
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评分更像Research而不是Solution。前半部分都是罗列作者遇见的众多案例,这和她个人经历有关,但作为一本名为How to raise an adult的书来讲,让人不耐烦。毕竟不是论文汇报。后半部分提及了一些原则方法,也并没有什么太多过人之处。结束时比开头似乎快一倍。看前面完全失去动力读下去,忍着快进读完,潦潦草草。回头再借鉴点儿有用的详谈。
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评分两部分:一部分批评直升机家长,后一部分指出应该怎么做。可操作性强,例子丰富。
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How to Raise an Adult 2024 pdf epub mobi 电子书